Monday, June 28, 2010

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Sunday, June 27, 2010

Whirlwind Weekend

Good friends Alison and Denys stopped by around lunch time on Saturday on their way to the lake for their vacation week.  We took them out to Peaches Cafe.  We hadn't been seated for 5 minutes when Denys and I took a few diet sodas to the shorts and shirts.  We were soaked and STICKY.  We laugh it off, crack jokes with our server for the rest of our stay and enjoyed a great lunch.

Other friends,  Lori and Howie invited us out for the weekend to help celebrate their oldest son's 2nd birthday.  So, we packed up the new swagger wagon (we bought the Town and Country, not the Sienna, but the video is still worth watching) and headed to Elmira on Saturday afternoon.  When we arrived, we each ordered a great dinner from Gino's Restaurant (if they had a website, I'd link to it).  The veal marsala was excellent.

As we were winding down, I took this photo of Zac at 1 year 364 days old.  It may be the weirdest creepiest photo you've ever seen...somehow it looks like his eyes are closed and the camera can see through his eye lids


Anyways, it was time to turn in so Emiley and I started the motor on our queen sized air mattress in the middle of their living room.  Unpacked and inflated in less than 3 minutes.  I couldn't even get into bed for a good hour and a half after Emiley did.  Sleep just wasn't happening at that point.  I was wide awake.  Sitting on the couch made me think of KM's recent insomnia post.  All in all, I got just over 2 hours sleep Saturday night.

Sunday started with a great breakfast as Howie broke out the waffle iron instead of just plain breaking the waffle iron like the last time we were there.  Other family and friends started arriving for the big birthday party.  In the 8 hours from Zac at 1 year 364 days to Zac at 2 years, the little guy went from demon looking to happy as could be.

The party was going well and everyone was enjoying themselves.  It was now time for Zac to open his presents.  Keep in mind, he could care less about the presents as long as he had one of the 986 balloons that were scattered throughout the house.
After the first gifts were opened, you could hear the two dogs getting into a little bit of a tiff outside.  This was a big turning point in the day.  People that were out on the back deck noticed that the 11 year old pug (that Howie had since he was a puppy), Max, was bleeding.  Others, including Howie, went outside to find Max with a SERIOUS eye injury (Max had lost his left eye in the fall during another tiff with Maggie, their golden)  and a cut on his ear.  This resulted in me driving Howie and Max to the Elmira emergency vet.
The vet was very nice but was VERY confident that the eye would be lost.  She tried to assure Howie that dogs can do very well blind.  At this time Lori and another friend Lloyd showed up.  After several minutes of emotional discussion and deliberation,  it was decided that Max would be put down in the morning....they couldn't bear to do it on Zac's b-day.  Max is being kept 'comfortable' at the emergency clinic until morning.  He was 11, would not have any quality of life, often wore a diaper when inside, and had been a little testy with the 2 boys in the past.....but, it's NEVER an easy decision and I wholeheartedly feel for them tonight.

Needless to say, this had slowed down the celebrating.  I was messaging with Emiley while at the vets and she indicated most of the other guests had left.  When we all got back to the house, the guests (other than immediate family) had left, the kids had been put down for a nap, and the toys and food had been cleaned up and put away.  Zac didn't know the long as a balloon was in reach.
At 3pm, Emiley and I packed the rest of our stuff into our new van and headed back to Albany....anxious to see Shadow after the day's events. 
Remember, I'm on two hours sleep (even writing this) and drove the 3 hours home.  Emiley, who is in the 29th week of pregnancy would ask me random questions throughout the trip to make sure I was staying awake.  I spoke in jibberish and could barely put a working sentence together but we made it.  Shadow got all sorts of extra pets and ear scratches....just because.  Getting Shadow back into the van to come home turned into an ordeal, but it all worked out and at this moment he is sleeping  snoring on his bed

In memory of Max, a great companion and friend, remember to give that 4 legged family member(s) a few extra belly rubs and scratches behind the ear.

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Strange Pairings

Each time that Emiley and I have any sort of pasta, I get the 'you have 3 heads' look.  It's not the pasta, it's what I like have to drink with my pasta.  Whether it be spaghetti, ziti, ravioli, or angle hair, I must have a large glass of pink lemonade...not yellow...must be pink lemonade.

This is reminds me that of a second strange pairing that resulted in "That's gross".  I was finishing lunch and had extra peanut butter that I was dipping apples in with only carrots remaining.  So, I started scooping the PB out of the dish with the carrots.  It tasted awesome but again, drew quite a few strange looks.

They aren't things that go together like peanut butter and jelly, cookies and milk or Penn and Teller but for me, they work.

What strange food combinations do you enjoy?  What were others' reactions?

Friday, June 25, 2010

Tipping the scales

I can remember as a kid my grandma and my mom being faithful users of the supermarket produce scales.  They would put 5 peaches in a bag (sidenote:  even then, the plastic produce bags required the proper rubbing together between the thumb and finger...on both ends....before they would open.  God forbid if you got them wet because you'd need an exacto knife to get them open) anyways...they would then scour the produce area looking for the scale.  If it the lever bobbed over the 1lb mark, we only got 4 peaches that trip.

Emiley and I had planned on kabobs for dinner tonight.  Venison for me, chicken for her.  I stopped at the store to get a variety of vegetables that would skewer nicely and taste good grilled.  I spotted the green peppers (for my kabobs only) and had to wait behind a woman that appeared a little older than my mom.  She would pick up a pepper, inspect it for blemishes and then gently place it in the produce scale.  She'd anxiously wait for the lever (is that the right term?) to settle.  Three times, she would remove the pepper from the scale and place it back amongst the pile.  Then it dawned on me, she was looking for a specific weight for her green pepper.  When her third pepper hit the scale, I had to ask "are you looking for a pepper of an exact size?"  She very nicely replied that her recipe called for 1 cup of chopped green pepper and that 1C is the same as 8 oz or half a pound.  Then she scowled and slapped her hand down at some invisible object (you know exactly what I'm talking about don't you?) and said "and I don't like anything to go to waste"

I personally have not used one of these scales in years.  If a pepper is $1.19 per pound, I pick up a pepper, struggle getting the plastic produce bag open and am on my merry way.  I'm never concerned that it's 3/4lb or 2/3lb.  It will get all get used.

I'm curious, does anyone use these supermarket scales anymore?

Oh, and by the way....the kabobs were AWESOME!

Thursday, June 24, 2010

To Facebook or Not to Facebook

I'm getting annoyed with FB.  Not FB itself because it has proven to be very useful in reconnecting with old friends and has proven very valuable for networking...especially for Capital Coexist....but the posts that I see.  Some posts are just ridiculous

Examples of types of posts that I don't like to read and definitely wouldn't post myself.
  • "out--text/cell it"  For some reason I find this to be absolutely ridiculous I must be getting old 
  • _______(insert name) just ate/made ______(insert mundane food i.e. toast).  Good for you, I don't care and now I'm hungry
  • "My boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife/significant other is so________(insert disgustingly sweet/angry adjective).  Without a 'why' this type of post serves no purpose to your 'friends'.  If it's meant to be  for one person to compliment them or show how angry you are, why post it on FB?  Seeking attention?
  • Two person conversations that could should have been done by phone (we still use phones, right),  email, text, or IM.
                   Example:   Person 1 "Are you going tonight?
                                    Person 2 "Yes, can I get a ride"  
                                    Person 1 "Sure, I'll pick you up at 6"
                                    Person 2 "great, see you then"
Great, two friends are going to the same place at the same time and one is giving the other a ride...freakin' fantastic....your 134 other 'friends' either aren't going or have to find their own ride...or bike if they are smart health/environment conscious friends

To be fair, there are also types of posts that I enjoy (and am more likely to comment on):
  • links to interesting events/articles/activities  These make for good readings if the topic is of interest  and keep me up to date with local activities and meetings
  • anything cute or embarrassing (especially if it's embarrassing for you) that  kids have done or said. Yes, I laugh at your expense...and think, I'll be there before I know it
  • ______(insert name) just ate/made______(insert some exotic food, great new restaurant or healthy recipe.  Always looking for new food choices both out and and at home
  • Anything that uses @Jason   How can I not be interested if someone took the time to tag me in a post?
  • posts that make me think or laugh until I cry.  I'm likely to laugh first because I probably 'don't get it' but after a while it will come to me
If you post things that fall into the top bullets, don't take offense....I just may not comment (breaks your heart, doesn't it?).

Facebook on my 'friends', Facebook on!


Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Community Voice

I exercised one of my civic rights duties tonight and went to a community meeting (you'll have to check a Capital Region events calendar to figure out which one) as a resident. My goals were to listen to the presentation and not have to put on my planner hat.

The room had about 40 people including several area elected officials. The Big Shot of a company (for simplicity and to be completely accurate, we'll aptly refer to him as B-S) stood in front of the room with his entourage of consultants and fumbled through a power point presentation in which it was mentioned that traffic including cyclists and pedestrians was the focus (after the expansion of the company, of course).  B-S actually used the term 'those people' when referring to low-income and the large population that does not have access to private transportation.  After several public groans, he opened up the room for questions. Questions focused on everything from neighborhood impact, parking, transit, and noise.  Some asked about bicycle access and parking.  B-S made a comment that no matter what happens, cycling on this particular roadway would be difficult.  He answered more questions about noise and B-S noticed my hand up in the back row.  As he is about to call on me, someone else interrupts and says something positive about cyclists.  B-S  laughs and says "they're taking their life in their hands" and in the same breath he motioned that it was my turn to ask my question.

I opened with "I'm one of those cyclists that will be risking my life on this roadway on my way home tonight (I rode to the meeting)".  B-S dropped his head as he realized he had put his foot in his mouth.  All I could do was silently chuckle as the only thought that came to mind with B-S' message was "You'll shoot your eye out, kid"  I asked my question and strongly encouraged them to consider covered bike parking.  B-S jumped in and said they would have a covered area for bikes.  Whoa!  It was getting dark and I did have to ride home on a fairly busy roadway so I got up, proudly donned my red helmet and made sure my the bottom of my padded spandex shorts could be seen under my 'regular' shorts and made my way to the door.

The ride home was uneventful except that the battery in my bike head light went out about 3/4 a mile from home....reflectors and strobes still fully functioning.

It felt great to have a voice in the community and be able to speak intelligently on a subject of personal interest.  I encourage everyone to attend these types of meetings to be engaged, have a voice, and ensure that people like B-S know that their decisions do have an impact on the community.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Good things come....

A lot of good things today; things that friends are doing trying to help others and make this scary world we live in better.

As work was winding down and I was checking scouring Facebook, an old high school friend had a post about an upcoming bike ride that her and her husband were participating in. The ride benefits Roswell Cancer Institute...a near and dear establishment that holds a special place in my 34 year history. Jonelle is doing the 20 mile route and her fund raising page is for anyone that would like to make a donation. Does it get better than cycling and trying to cure cancer in a single event?

A second person that you have to admire for doing something for the community is Justin Booth who is the man in charge (think Director is his official title) of Green Options Buffalo. The mission of GO Buffalo is to create livable, sustainable, community friendly transportation for the Greater Buffalo area. Notably, Justin has somehow worked it so local breweries are selling Rusty Chain beer and the proceeds help support the cause/community. Being able to socially have a drink and be doing something good is an awesome outreach example. Justin and I work together a lot on bicycle and pedestrian issues and it's great to see someone actually getting things done.

There were also interestingly surprisingly positive discussions at the office today. This doesn't happen everyday, especially with this particular group so it was encouraging (slightly) to have some support for our proposed changes in the use of technology.

Outreach for Capital Coexist is expanding. We've got posters and palm cards that we're giving out for free that highlight the 4 cyclist/motorist education messages. I'm also going to try my hand at some sort of Capital Coexist podcast...wish me luck!

Monday, June 21, 2010

What a great evening

On Sunday, Emiley and I decided that the "What do you want for dinner?", "I don't know, what do you want?", "It doesn't matter" discussion that often led to PB&J had to stop. So, I said I would make sure we had a healthy-ish dinner each night.

Tonight was day 1 and so far so good. We had baked sweet potato, steamed purple cauliflower, and chicken in a red wine sauce with baby bellas, scallions, and cherry tomatoes. Em also had some roasted summer squash (her favorite). Fish and venison kabobs are on the menu for later in the week.

After dinner and a boat load of dishes, K of K&R came over and we did a 15 mile bike ride to help with her sprint tri training. It is Soooo much nicer riding with someone as it makes it go so much faster.

Em got her 50+ sunflowers planted and now it's time to unwind, put some thoughts into words and begin making my list for tomorrow.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

It's always helpful to write things down. Each day, I make a list of things that I'd like to accomplish at the office. Unfortunately, with phones ringing, emails, and water cooler banter I usually only get through about half of the daily list.

I'm also finding that it's helpful to write type things here. My mind is full of random thoughts such the aptly named blog Wandering Thoughts. This forum allows me to focus even if just for 10 minutes or 10 lines of text.

So to keep form, here's tomorrow's to-do list (so far)
1. upload photos from helmet fitting event
2. write letter for Capital Coexist
3. dinner options (we're bored with our usuals)
4. meet to discuss public input opportunities
5. do bike/ped notes
6. ride

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Isn't Technology Great?

Isn't it great to be connected? We've got Facebook, Twitter, texting (except Kelly and Rob), Blackberry Messenger, email, IMing, and blogs. I don't IM and I haven't advanced to Twitter yet, but the rest are a part of my daily life. My Blackberry is constantly flashing indicating MY Yahoo and Gmail messages along with Capital Coexist emails.

There has been desire interest an inkling to increase our technology use at the office to improve our public outreach and public input opportunities. This is great!. The keynote speaker at the 2010 MPO Conference in Syracuse gave a great presentation on the differences complexities of the different generations. It really kept our interest and rejuvenated many of us with the idea that...CDTC can be doing more. It's going to be an internal fight against the tech-scared and those that are overly comfortable with the status-quo. Better buy stock in Advil because new technology will not happen without a few headaches.

Interestingly enough, these discussions at work and my multi-layer connectedness, have created a HUGE desire for a tech-free weekend (at least). Emiley and I are going away in July to New Hampshire as our final getaway before Baby Purvis arrives. I'm so looking forward to turning off the BB and not really caring about reading what everyone had for breakfast or who's husband/wife did something stupid (again). I'm looking forward to a REAL book with a binding and pages that I can fold and the sunrise/sunset. The only technology I will embrace is my camera which has to be feeling lonely lately as it hasn't been out in public for quite a while.

I've also been talking (a lot) about our January 2011 trip to Hawaii with K&R. We'll have our laptops with us to upload photos periodically because Hawaii can result in 100's of photos per day and I'm not interested in having to *work* when I get home in getting photos uploaded....much rather do it sitting by the pool or at one of the lagoons each afternoon. Kelly agreed to give up FB for the week if Rob would give up cable TV. Personally, I'm taking both challenges (and turning the BB off) for the week on Oahu and I WILL succeed. Bring on the paperbacks and maybe a magazine or two for the 9.5 hr flight. I might even refuse to take the elevator when I'm not pushing the stroller.

Technology is great and it's wonderful to be connected but enough's enough!

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Change is good, right?

Having worked in a toll booth through grad school, I have a problem with the way people hand others money that contains both bills and coins. I've seen several different methods:

1. There's the place the coins on the president's face of the bill and then fold the bill over the coins into a little package. Just asking for disaster and then the bill is wrinkled and has to be unfolded.

2. There's the hold the bill on top of the coins and then during the hand off try to slip the coins into the receiver's hands. It is impossible to see the coins and is just asking for them to fall on the ground.

3. There's the hold the bills in your palm and holding the coins with the forefinger and thumb. This usually results in shoving the bills into someone's hand and forcing the coins into the receiver's hand. This results in the receiver having to delicately pull the bill out from under the coins in his hand to count the money.

4. There's the wad everything into a ball in your hand and holding a fist out in front of you. How is anyone supposed to grab something that you are letting go of from fist. Just plain stupid.

5. My preferred method is to give the coins and then the bills in two separate movements. This allows the person receiving the money to count the coins and then accept the bills. The order is the bills and then the coins often results in having to say "I've got the 11 cents.".

Sunday, April 25, 2010

repair it, clean it out, or cut it off

My right knee has been sore for over a week. The MRI last Wednesday produced some amazing images of the internal workings of my knee. The unfortunate thing is I have not idea how to read the images and won't know until I see the Dr again on Thursday.

Something has to be done...the pain is nearing unbearable. Hence, repair it, clean it out, or cut it off. Either way, I have to be fully recovered by the summer so that I am mobile when Emiley and I welcome our first child (September 18th +/-). I can't be on crutches or unable to bend/straighten. I hate to wish time away but can't wait until Thursday to find out what's next.


Welcome to my blog. For the longest time, I was against blogging because my experiences were focused around anonymous comments at the end of newspaper articles. If you're going to comment, have the courtesy to provide a name. Lately, I've started following some local blogs and have read several articles about how blogging is influencing how people obtain/share information.

It's like public agencies using Facebook or other social networking sites. Sure, there's some risk of abuse but I think the benefit of reaching more people is worth the risk.

I'm hoping to continue with posts that will share experiences, invoke thought, maybe make us laugh and selfishly promote Capital Coexist, a localized bicycle education campaign